Who Is Your Tantrika?

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WRITTEN BY BENDY GIRL

READ TIME: 2 min. 24 sec.

Hello to all the loves who have seen me and to those who one day will. Let me (re)introduce myself, my lifestyle and the the things I value. I have dedicated my life to offering others compassion, and loving kindness through my own path towards becoming an enlightened bodhisattva, empathic being and your tantrika.

I am a life-long seeker, educator, author, creative and consummate self-care advocate. My personal path to self-awareness has led me from Martial arts to Yoga, Ayurveda, Thai Massage, Tantra, Sexology, the TAO and other traditional practices that were the heart of ancient civilizations and human well-being.

Tantra is my own personal journey and I live based on the principals I teach - I am just inviting you along for the ride. I take the Art of Living very seriously. Each day I gift myself “intentional joy” through mindful choices and the detachment of common unfulfilling pleasures. This allows me an opportunity to reach higher states of fulfillment as a lifestyle choice. I live a Sensual Life in order to make myself “ripe” for miracles.

Each day by 5:00am I can be found on my yoga mat followed by a daily swim/earthing/cold therapy, lifting weights, weekly red light therapy and weekly HIIT workouts. I am a lifestyle hacker and I use many of today’s technological advances to improve my own biological functions that keep me healthy as I move through time. My diet focuses on longevity based systems and I fast regularly to keep aging at bay. My daily rituals assure my mind, body, energy, focus, flow, vitality and youthful state are always fully awakened. My deep reserve of energy helps me digest and address any concerns you may bring to my sacred space. I wish to be a shining light that can offer a platform for your unfolding, awakening and eventual self-enlightenment. I hope to reveal the divine play of Tantra as a worthwhile path towards enlightenment, through the discovery of unsurpassed happiness that deep exploration naturally unearths.

I choose Nuru/Bodyglide as my tools of tantric seduction. Just as Yoga is not something you do - it is the attitude in which you perform the postures. A person can take a yogic attitude into any activity. So too it is with Tantra. It’s not what you do, it is how you do it. Nuru and full body massage “speaks” to my soul and taps into my own lifelong skillset of hands-on healing through full body exploration. Nuru allows me to maximize my tiny frame as I slip and slide you into ecstatic moments of un-paralleled sensory pleasures. Nuru has lessons to teach and pleasures to offer. The entire body is an erogenous zone - Nuru reveals this without qualms.

Together we will tap into movement, breath, meditation, bodywork and inner alchemy to raise energy and awaken internal systems. We will activate the mind-body-spirit to expose senses, awareness and emotions to bring you closer to who you truly are. Let me offer you a safe space to find yourself in pleasure.


The Book

I wrote Sensual Arts for Beginners an Introduction to Nuru Massage for couples (and individuals) to obtain the skills to live a life of love.


Conscience loving and mindful relationships can cultivate a happy life and emotional wellbeing.
Art of Nuru reveals that a couple can turn to each other to overcome relationship isolation,
prevent the loss of intimacy and the deterioration of an active-healthy sex life.

 
 

XO,
BendyGirl
Loveologist

BendyGirl the Guru of Nuru

My journey is one of a lifelong educator and dedicated yogi intertwines with the profound path of Tantra. My ethos is rooted in guiding others towards a life marked by peace, joy, and an ever-curious soul, nurturing a heightened state of self-awareness. My passion lies in reviving ancient folk medicines, adapting their timeless wisdom to address contemporary needs. Touch, for me, is more than a mere physical interaction; it's a powerful conduit for building empathic connections and enriching my practice. My deepest aspiration is to empower others to embrace a life filled with sensuality and passion, encouraging them to boldly pursue their deepest desires and to seek a fulfilling journey towards a joyous culmination of their own Happy ending.

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