Art of Nuru Dreams Come True

WRITTEN BY BENDY GIRL

READ TIME: 4 min. 19 sec.

Kelseyville Homecoming

She wakes while the moon still hangs in the sky. Rising with reverence and gratitude for the day ahead, she feels the NorCal stillness around her. Silence hangs in the air and a beautiful calm settles within. In that quiet moment, grace and peace wash through her, filling her with a lightness she has never known before. As the horizon begins to glow, the katydids slowly quiet with their chorus of the night, giving way to the chirping birds. The early morning light sends shimmers over the lake, her Art of Nuru dreams of Kelseyville beckoning her into the waking life of another day.

To dream a dream is human; to transform reality out of that same dream is a mystical form of self-love, actualization, and manifestation. It’s believing in oneself when you ask no one else to believe “with” you. The dream is uniquely yours, and there is only one ticket for this ride; no one can take that journey with you. When we set out to dream a dream so big that even we ask, “Who are we to dare to dream so big?”, it becomes a challenge, a risk, and a powerful opportunity to show up for yourself in a way that truly matters.

Do you have one of those dreams for yourself? Do you dare, or do you even laugh at yourself?  Who would you be if you dared to dream bigger than life, to dream just big enough that it makes you pause and ask, “Are you fucking crazy?” 

If you have such a dream… are you willing to pursue it? Or do you laugh at the very idea? Who could you become if you dared to dream bigger than life itself? To dream so vast that it makes you pause and say, “Am I fucking crazy?”. To be daring, with unbridled boldness—imagine the transformation waiting on the other side.

Retreating Into Sexwork

Over the past 16 years, sex work has gradually and profoundly led me to a deeper connection with myself. It has offered me the solitude, time and space for true self-discovery and acceptance. Tantra, my guiding philosophy,  invites us to examine how we live, to assess our happiness, joy, lust for life, passion, curiosity, and compassion for those who enter our orbit. For the Tantrist, conscious connection is the elixir of life—food for the soul. And Nuru massage is one of the key ingredients of that food, while sensualisation is the spice that will give flavor to those dreams as they satiate our realities.

Think of it like visiting a new country. You arrive with curiosity, notice the cultural differences, and for a brief moment, you shift into a world of the unknown. One-on-one connection mirrors this experience—it invites vulnerability, authentic interaction, and tender touch. It can be a profound journey—an exploration of intimacy that awakens the senses, the soul, and the spirit.

Intimate touch is how I share my energy, and how I feel yours. Nuru massage is the ultimate sensual method of expressing this touch. Like a chef who smells, tastes, and imbibes the spicy aromatics of a perfectly prepared meal, I savor the emotional “roll” during our time together. There's nothing more beautiful than two people who, having just met, shed their inhibitions and simply vibe—that genuine connection in real time. It’s something truly missing in our world today, a rare gift of authenticity.

Throughout my life, I’ve owned many businesses, yet none of them brought me the happiness and fulfillment that sex work does. When it was time to create a future home for myself, it only made sense to design a sacred space—an intimate sanctuary in NorCal where I could serve Nuru massage enthusiasts, provide professional training, and offer a retreat from the chaos of the world.

My gypsy spirit has led me from Monterey to Hermosa Beach, with many beloved stops along the way. Funky La Conchita in Ventura County will always have a special place in my heart. I cherish my nine months in Venice Beach, a bucket list dream fulfilled. Thanks for the memories, SoCal—I still have my “I Love LA” sticker on the fridge and often switch on an episode or two of Californication to take a nostalgic trip down memory lane.

As I entered midlife this year, I felt a pull from the wild. My gypsy heart needed a place to take root, settle in, and call my own.  Kelseyville called, and I answered. It was time to give myself, my work, and my great love for Nuru massage a place to call home. My life transition from the city to the country has given me reprieve into myself, all while expanding my horizons and spreading my wings. The shift remains profound and upending, as if by the hand of the universe herself. Careful what you ask for, it just might show up!

The Space

My home is in Kelseyville, California, just outside of Lakeport—a private retreat on three-quarters of an acre, designed for escape and surrender. The journey alone will bring you tranquility, nestled in the untamed beauty of rural NorCal. Here, you can truly let go. 

Start in my stunning walk-in shower, where I am happy to scrub you spotless myself. From there, we can begin a journey that will leave you deeply connected and profoundly moved. Whether it’s rejuvenation, exploration, or pure bliss, this space is a sanctuary built for transformation and healing.

Join me in my specially crafted Nuru massage room and yoga space, built with your comfort and pleasure in mind. Perhaps if we have a date night we can share a healthy meal together in my state of the art kitchen. Does longevity and intimate fitness turn you on? I have a fitness space equipped with an abundance of longevity and wellness tools and therapies. Let’s attune your mind and body for the ultimate sensual experience.

Local Chat!

For the local crowd: I’d love to hear about some of your favorite hidden gems in the area. Send me an email and share your favorite eateries, hiking trails, nature day trips,  rockhounding locations, thrift/antique stores, swimming holes, and any other cool “must check out” suggestions. 

I will also start offering limited availability special extended sessions for returning clients, including NorCal locals, soon. This will give us a chance to go deeper in our connection and the Nuru massage journey, and also an opportunity for me to find out what really makes you tick. 

Or if you are new to Nuru massage and you want to give it a try to see if it suits you before delving into a longer experience, stay tuned to my therapies page for quick 30 minute sessions–coming soon!

I look forward to the journey ahead. I hope to see many of you in Kelseyville. I would love to host you in my new home, cultivating decadent experiences by indulging in enchanting connections and exquisitely pleasurable moments. Let’s share a safe space where we can explore the depths of sensual connection and intimate erotic touch. 

Thank you for being here. I look forward to sharing space with you.

Namaste’

BG